An argument for leaving the government (public) school system

An argument for leaving the government (public) school system

The latest National Assessment of Educational Progress (NAEP) scores are out, and the results are shocking.  Only 37 percent of eighth graders are proficient in reading for grade level, and only 35 percent of eighth graders are proficient in math.  The results for inner-city schools are much worse.  Results in Detroit, for instance, show only five and seven percent proficiency in math and reading. * From these statistics, I’d come to the conclusion that the government (public) school system is failing – miserably. (more…)

Is homeschooling for you? Pros and cons

Is homeschooling for you? Pros and cons

There are so many advantages to homeschooling your child(ren).  There is also a cost – in terms of loss of personal time and possibly income – a sacrifice many parents believe is well worth it.

Calvert Education’s website has listed some pros and cons for homeschooling.  Calvert’s offers a complete homeschool curriculum as well as an online academy.  Check out their website here: www.calverteducation.com

Below are several of those for your consideration.

Pros and Cons of Homeschooling

TIME

More family time is spent on homeschooling.

Pros:

  • You have a more direct role on your child’s daily learning.
  • You have the satisfaction that your children are learning, developing skills, and maturing in a way that aligns to your goals and values.
  • Build stronger relationships with your children.

Cons:

  • You have to plan school-time and activities and handle the administrative work of being a teacher.
  • Less time each day for yourself.
  • Potential for more stress and fatigue by taking on parenting and teacher responsibilities.

MONEY

More money dedicated to education in homeschooling.

Pros:

  • You can use vacations and other activities as part of your homeschool curriculum.
  • Purchasing bundled learning packets can help with budgeting and ultimately help reduce costs.

Cons:

  • Dedicating time to homeschooling can mean a loss of income or reduced time working.
  • Need to tighten your family’s spending.

Pros:

  • You can use vacations and other activities as part of your homeschool curriculum.
  • Purchasing bundled learning packets can help with budgeting and ultimately help reduce costs.

Cons:

  • Dedicating time to homeschooling can mean a loss of income or reduced time working.
  • Need to tighten your family’s spending.

TEAM SPORTS

Team sports options change for homeschoolers.

Pros:

  • Your children can still participate in recreational leagues, amateur leagues, attend local homeschool sports classes, or create their own sports leagues.

Cons:

  • Most school districts do not allow homeschoolers to participate in public school sports teams.

socialization

 Different path for your child’s socialization.

Pros:

  • Less ridicule and social pressures that reduce self-esteem and discourage learning.
  • No bullying.
  • Greater exposure to more adults through field trips and other activities.
  • Connection to other homeschoolers of varying ages and skill levels.
  • Real-life skill building is stronger in home-based learning.

Cons:

  • Some kids who were homeschooled recall having a smaller circle of friends.
  • Less daily interaction with large groups of kids within the same age group.

Freedom and Flexibility

More educational freedom and flexibility in homeschooling.

Pros:

  • Your child can move more quickly through assignments and subjects they understand, and spend more time on topics that are challenging.
  • Homeschoolers tend to perform better on standardized tests.
  • No homework! Yeah, that’s right. Since all learning is going on during the day, there is no need to task your child with additional work.
  • Ability to pursue child’s interests, and have more personalized learning – matching lessons to child’s learning styles.

Cons:

  • Possibly fewer resources such as technology that may be available in a public school.
  • Parents must teach a broad range of subjects. Greater freedom and flexibility requires more time and responsibility from the parent.
  • Potentially less structure when compared to public school.

Recognition for Achievements

Recognition for achievement is limited to homeschool.

Pros:

  • Less distraction from students who do not value learning allows for greater achievement
  • Homeschool students often show a greater pride in their own achievements, as they are self-motivated.

Cons:

  • Less outside family recognition of good work.
  • Fewer award ceremonies, as are common in public schools.

Community Involvement

More time for community involvement.

Pros:

  • Less distraction from students who do not value learning allows for greater achievement
  • Homeschool students often show a greater pride in their own achievements, as they are self-motivated.

Cons:

  • More time to be involved in the community whether through volunteer opportunities or community projects.
  • Children lose some social interaction with peers.

Just do it!

Just do it!

Have you ever been in a quandry about what step to take in your life?  To stay in school or to leave?  To look for a different job because you think your employer’s not treating you right?  To continue in a relationship, whether it’s with a “friend” or a “romance?”  To stay at your present location or move somewhere else?

Here are some steps that have worked for me – and perhaps they will for you, too!

A T-Sheet. 

This is something my mother taught me years ago.  I don’t always do it, but when I do, it sure helps to clarify what I should do.  Take a piece of paper (yes, an old-fashioned piece of paper), and draw a big “T”.  On one side of the “T”, write “pros”; on the other “cons”.  Now, write down one of the directions forward you are considering.

Pros and cons of staying in a particular job was always a big one for me, to help determine whether I should stay or seek employment elsewhere, and that’s the example I will use here.

Start asking and answering questions of yourself, in writing.

Do I like the work?  Am I being paid fairly for the job I am doing?  Is my employer living up to the agreement they made with me?  Is there an area for growth?  Am I learning?  Am I making a living wage? (One that covers my current lifestyle, without my going into debt.) Any other issues – like personality clashes, etc.?

If most of these are positive answers, but there are areas that need improvement, like not being paid enough to make a living, what are some solutions if I decide I like the job and would like to stay as my preferred answer?  This is where communication with the boss comes in – and is probably the toughest area in life.

Once a decision about the direction is made, then the action part kicks in.

Fear plays a big factor here.  The question is – how to approach your boss for an increase in pay?  How to talk to management about meeting agreements made?  The biggie for me was overcoming the fear to talk to the boss about matters that affected me.  There were several times over the course of my career when my boss had promised me a bonus for meeting a certain expectation, or covering the cost of my car expenses when I had to go call on potential clients or run other errands for the company, and failed to do it.

Before taking the next step, I made sure I had another alternative for work.  Most often, I had already been approached by a competitor to move to their business.  On occasion, I had made a business plan and arranged a loan to start my own business.

So here’s what I did:  I made an outline of what I wanted to say.  Then I made an appointment to see the boss.  I said a prayer for God’s wisdom, guidance, direction and will.  Then – and this was probably the most difficult part – I took a deep breath, forgot about everything, and just DID IT.  I just walked in, sat down, and started telling the boss my dilemma, in a nice but determined way.

Once that was done, I felt a sense of relief.  The results came – sometimes as I hoped, and sometimes not.  There were times when the boss said they couldn’t meet my expectations, for a variety of reasons.  Other times, they did, in order to keep me, acknowledged as a valuable employee who brought income into their business.

Through the years, whichever way it worked out – whether I stayed, or whether I moved to another company – or whether I did indeed start my own business, I learned from the experience and grew in self-esteem and the ability to communicate better and more easily.

Today, I use this program quite effectively for the decisions I make.  And, the “just doing it” comes almost without thinking it anymore.

Ambleside Online – a FREE homeschool curriculum

Ambleside Online – a FREE homeschool curriculum

Recently I stumbled onto Ambleside Online ( Ambleside.com ), which offers a free curriculum by Charlotte Mason.  It is available for individuals or for groups.

According to the Ambleside.com website:

Charlotte Mason was a British educator who believed that education was about more than training for a job, passing an exam, or getting into the right college. She said education was an atmosphere, a discipline, and a life; it was about finding out who we were and how we fit into the world of human beings and into the universe God created. But this kind of thinking was pretty much eclipsed during the 20th century by demands for more exams and more workers. In 1987, Susan Schaeffer Macaulay wrote a book called For the Children’s Sake, which reintroduced parents to Charlotte Mason’s methods and philosophy, and it started to gain a foothold with a new generation of homeschoolers. (more…)

Snow – and Rest!

Snow – and Rest!

by Sue Forde

February 11, 2019

We’ve been getting quite a lot of snow in our western Washington area recently – to the point where many have been “snowed in” for a few days.  The snow causes the earth to take a rest.  And when it begins to melt, it nourishes the earth with water into the aquifer.

It’s only natural that after some time passes, we would start to get antsy – want to get out and get things done, at our usual day-to-day pace.  But perhaps we should take a lesson from God’s nature – when a blanket of snow falls on the earth, it’s a “time-out”.  Everything lies still and peaceful – and it’s beautiful!  That white layer of snow, untouched by anything or anyone, is something to behold.  We look out the window – or go outside for a short period of time – and enjoy it.

Our lives should be like that.  In today’s world, we rush here and there, with so many things “to do”, that we often overlook the sheer beauty of nature, and we get no real rest.  God has set the seasons for us – and with it, a lesson.  Take time out of our busy day to “think on these things” – the greatness of our loving Father, all that He provides for us each day, hour, minute and second.  Relax and don’t worry, as “everything” is in God’s hands – and YOU most of all!  He holds us each in the palm of His loving hand – and knows exactly what are needs are – and meets them according to His power and riches.

Worry is a tool of our enemy.  Stress, also, comes from that evil one who wanders the earth seeking whom he will destroy.  It’s sometimes difficult to pull our thoughts away from worry and stress.  We need to “make” time to just relax, read God’s word and His promises to us, and be filled with joy.  And, like the time of snow, we will become renewed and fresh – and ready to go again.